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Re: Stop Snooping

Guest — Tue, 29 Oct 2013 14:08:42 -0000

I found out a few months ago that my wife was cheating on me, by going through her IM's. She actually go mad at me when I initially called her out on it. When I came back later with more "evidence" she finally confessed. Long story short, we're working it out, but is it your advice that she may do it again/ is still doing it, but will do better about covering her tracks?

Re: Being “First” Is the Absolute Wrong Reason to Stay in a Relationship

Lanique — Thu, 18 Jul 2013 16:57:37 -0000

This is so true. Psychologically, we believe our first experience with a person will somehow strengthen our relationship with them. The truth is that the strength of your relationship lies in your daily decision to commit to them. Good Stuff!
-@muskislyfe (Twitter)

Re: Three Words You Don’t Want to Hear… EVER

BumbleLee ThatsMe — Thu, 13 Jun 2013 10:55:42 -0000

I agree with this WHOLE HEARTEDLY ... you should ALREADY BE COMPLETE!

Re: Fellas, It’s Okay to Cry

Brian D. Wood — Tue, 14 May 2013 19:39:15 -0000

This stigma has been going on since before we were born. Unfortunately, because of upbringing, men aren't able to express themselves. Now, this isn't an excuse for any man's actions but it can explain a lot of things.

Re: Fellas, It’s Okay to Cry

Lee Blackman — Tue, 14 May 2013 16:35:06 -0000

I totally agree that men definitely needs to express their emotions as well as communicate how they truly feel rather than bottle up those feelings & emotions! I love it when my man is able to express his truest feelings because it makes me feel so much closer to him & no I don't take it as a sign of weakness but the true character of a strong man! Its no fun being with someone who never expresses their true feelings! It feels like their being dishonest!

Re: Closure Is Not Overrated

Luv and Relationships — Tue, 30 Apr 2013 01:21:53 -0000

You and your ex broke it off. Are you trying to rekindle your relationship or are you just letting time pass by? It sounds as if neither of you have made a commitment to either breaking up all together or being together and working things out.

You need to have a heart-to-heart and draw the line in the sand. You and her can't hold onto each other if the relationship isn't going anywhere. Once you have a definitive answer, then you will know what to do from there.

Re: Closure Is Not Overrated

Jasmine Love Gucci — Mon, 29 Apr 2013 19:52:33 -0000

Me and my ex broke it off like 4months ago...I love her ..but o fell out of love we been together on and off for 3yrs almost... we talk every now in then... but recently two days ago she told me she's dealing with somebody...idk if its a guy or gurl but were both women ... I can't say I trust her to much when it come down to goin out or sayin she be back but idk how to jus be friends with a person I once shared my heart with... its hard how do I get over this hump??? I moved out also ... but I still come over sometimes... but now that she neen talkin to this other person ..she don't want to hold me at night or even make out ... what's that about ... should I jus leave or try to understand?

Re: Love Never Dies

Angela Woods50 — Tue, 31 Jul 2012 21:42:20 -0000

Love this!!!You truly are talented....Keep it coming...

Re: Virgo + Cancer

Joeyjacobson — Mon, 23 Jul 2012 01:02:05 -0000

Yeah Cancerians are soo CARING people , We Virgos like to PROTECT them :-)

Re: Does Size Matter

AmyS — Tue, 17 Jul 2012 09:24:12 -0000

Size shouldn't really come into the equation regardless of whether you're a man or a woman. When you're younger size is normally a factor but when you get to a certain age it's not that much of a big deal.

Re: Project ME: Going Commando

MsLeeLee — Thu, 12 Jul 2012 08:48:01 -0000

I regularly wear no panties ... At first because I felt a lil sexier ... Now, .... Well its 1 less thing I have 2 spend money on, worry about putting on or even washing. lol, I actually WEAR panties as a "treat" for my other half.

Re: Simply Single

Jaesaunders — Mon, 09 Jul 2012 11:20:51 -0000

Amen Sista! Cosign.

Re: I Cheated Myself

Larry Miller — Thu, 05 Jul 2012 03:35:00 -0000

It's like I said in my book cheaters must look at themselves in the mirror in other worlds know your role. Good luck in building a new you.

Re: Maybe You Can’t Help Who You Love… But You Can Control What You Do About It

Larry Miller — Thu, 05 Jul 2012 03:23:14 -0000

Well said.

Re: Check Yourself

Larry Miller — Thu, 05 Jul 2012 03:21:32 -0000

No one deserves or should put up with being disrepected.

Re: Marriage Matters: For Better or Worse, For Richer or Poorer

Larry Miller — Thu, 05 Jul 2012 03:15:03 -0000

Great article!

Re: Marriage Matters: For Better or Worse, For Richer or Poorer

Larry Miller — Thu, 05 Jul 2012 03:14:30 -0000

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Re: Walking Away

Rodriguezj0521 — Thu, 28 Jun 2012 14:46:01 -0000

She sounds like me. I had a similar experiance and right now I am loving me. I have lost 55lbs and shooting for 50 lbs more. I am leaning on God and moving forward. I am loving life.

Re: I Won’t Apologize for Checking His Cell Phone

None — Tue, 26 Jun 2012 13:01:26 -0000

there's a guy i know...and if his girl would check his phone...she would be in for a helluva BAD surprise, he is definitely cheating and everybody knows it but her i guess...idk if he is giving off the signals or not, or if she is just trusting to a fault, but whatever. i say if you check the phone, be prepared to leave if there is something that shows deception. dont threaten to leave, just leave. if you are going to stay anyway, what's the point of finding out? ignorance would be bliss (and denial) in that case. ::shrugs::

Re: His Heart Stopped; So Did Mine

Nubiandiva74@ymail.com — Wed, 16 May 2012 21:38:46 -0000

So very sorry for your loss...I too buried my husband 5 yrs ago who was also age 36...he passed from complications of diabetes and heart failure....I wish I could tell you that your pain will go away, but the truth is it doesn't....You learn to live with it and it gets better, but it takes time....I don't know your spiritual level, but it's an awesome time to grow closer to God, for He will truly keep you and yours....you are in my prayers my sister, and remember you now have your own personal Angel! Be blessed!

Re: My Peace from Shattered Pieces

Keya B Woods — Wed, 16 May 2012 18:33:27 -0000

Alisia,

I am sorry to hear of your loss. During that time it feels like no one understands..I think if we get to a place where we can share these experiences then maybe we can help each other through them a little easier.

Re: Under Control

Kisha Spencer — Tue, 15 May 2012 16:30:42 -0000

lol. Larry, I've found that most men do really appreciate the level of work that goes into running a household of 4. BUT, I don't hold it against him. He is good at doing what he does, and I'm good at doing what I do!

Re: Under Control

Larry Miller — Fri, 04 May 2012 02:18:37 -0000

Touche'!

Re: Get Respect

Bordeaux's Mom — Tue, 24 Apr 2012 14:33:02 -0000

I agree with all the posts on Facebook thread. I believe it's a mix between trying to be legally right, having children at a young age and the possibility that a parent wants the children to love them and think/speak well of them. But befriending the child and allowing the disrespect is not the way. Judge Toler posted earlier something her mother said, "A parent's job is not to make their children happy but to prepare them so they can make themselves happy when they are grown." If we as parents understood that and incorporated it into our lives, we could then, perhaps, get the respect that our parents and grandparents had in their home. Just a thought...

Re: A Perfect Match

Christy Goldstein — Mon, 23 Apr 2012 15:39:34 -0000

That's awesome that you found love online! It's hard to find whether it's online or in person! Thank you for sharing your story! :)